21 weeks today. We get another ultrasound tomorrow.
Miss Kat has been moving like a maniac, she stomps more than kicks too. She always moves when daddy talks to her, he has started reading her stories.
I am so excited! She is amazing to me now, I can only imagine how mind blowing she will be when she actually arrives.
Last Dr's appointment they took my blood for the quad screening for chromosomal abnormalities, and if it comes back elevated they will want to do an intensive diagnostic ultrasound. I am blown away by some of the things I have read on message boards...one woman was encouraging amniocentesis to another because after 3 miscarriages she and her husband had one because he "couldn't handle parenting a special needs child" and thus they would be able to terminate if there was something "wrong" with the fetus.
Their were "no problems" so her mind was put at ease. She felt this would be the case for everyone. I really hate being judgmental but having already lost 3 babies I don't understand how someone could get to this point in pregnancy and decide that this wasn't the "right" baby. I feel her squirming around in there while I am writing this, she hears daddy's voice and starts dancing, we love her beyond reason and she hasn't taken her first breath yet. I just don't understand it,there is nothing that could be "wrong" Miss Kat that could change that love and desire to be her mommy.
I am however super impatient for her to arrive. Can't wait to see who she will be, and love her so much no matter who that turns out to be.
Guess that's all for now, Miss Kat stomps her approval.(I think she is hoping for a snack)
Ciao for now~
marymontmama
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